The best parts about being online
Begin by asking your kids why they use digital devices and what their activities are. What do they think is good about those uses? Make sure you talk about the things your kids do frequently, like streaming videos or gaming.
The best parts about being offline
Next, talk about the offline activities your kids like to do. What is it about these activities that they enjoy? How are they different from what they do online? How do these activities make them feel compared to the online activities?
Are you missing out on something?
Discuss with your kids if they ever feel like their digital activities keep them from doing or enjoying things offline. If so, how does that make them feel and why? Then, switch it around: do offline activities ever keep them from digital activities? As always, it’s helpful to follow up with how this makes them feel and why.
Finding a blend that works
Consider how the offline and online worlds often overlap. For example, you could use your maps app to find new places to explore, or you might use search to find a recipe to cook together.
Brainstorm ways they can do more of the things they like to do – both offline and online – without feeling like they’re missing out on something.
Reflect on your habits
As you’re talking with your kids, make sure you’re considering your own blend of offline and online activities. Are there things you could do to help model the habits you hope to see your kids adopt?